近日，一條“女生替去世前男友照顧家人還債60萬”的微博熱搜，引發關注。
A
recent hashtag on Chinese social media—"Woman repays 600,000 yuan debt to
care for deceased ex-boyfriend's family"—has gone viral, drawing
widespread attention.
據掌上衡陽訊息，2016年6月19日，湖南衡陽女孩王婷相戀多年的男友曾志遭遇車禍，被奪走生命，並留下高達60萬元的債務。
截圖來源：衡陽廣播電視臺
另據紅網報道，王婷表示，欠債來源主要是人員工資、進貨欠款和朋友借款。王婷知道，這些債務的背後，是一個個家庭的期待與信任。她決定：“曾志雖然走了，但我不能讓他揹負著失信的罵名離開，我要替他把這些債還清。”
最終，王婷花光了自己的積蓄，還向朋友借了6萬多元，還清了債務。
According to Hengyang Daily, Wang Ting, a
woman from Hengyang, Hunan province, lost her longtime boyfriend, Zeng Zhi, in
a tragic car accident on June 19, 2016. The accident not only took Zeng’s life
but also left behind debts totaling 600,000 yuan,
primarily from unpaid wages, supplier bills, and personal loans.In
an interview with Rednet News, Wang explained that she felt compelled to honor
the trust placed in Zeng by creditors, many of whom were families relying on
the owed funds. "Even though Zeng is gone, I couldn’t let him leave this
world labeled as untrustworthy. I had to clear his name," she said. To
settle the debts, Wang exhausted her savings and even borrowed an additional
60,000 yuan from friends.
在相關報道的評論區中，不少人對王婷的行為表示不解，甚至還給她貼上了“挖野菜的王寶釧””戀愛腦典範”等標籤。
也有網友稱每個人價值觀不同，沒有必要嘲諷王婷。
The story, however, has sparked polarized
reactions online. While some netizens praised Wang’s integrity, others
criticized her decision and questioning
her as a "paragon of blind romance".Conversely, supporters defended her choice,
emphasizing respect for personal values. "Everyone has different
priorities—there’s no need to mock her kindness," one user wrote.
據九派新聞訊息，4月14日，衡陽縣婦聯一名工作人員表示，不清楚她幫前男友還債的事情，她之前也沒有主動提過。
針對網上的輿論爭議，她表示：“覺得是正能量的就可以去做，隨便別人怎麼說。”該工作人員還稱，王婷原生家庭不是很好，但她能吃苦，很善良，熱衷公益事業，“上個月還資助了一個學生一萬塊錢”。
When contacted by Jiupai News on Monday,
a staff member from the Hengyang County Women’s Federation stated they were
unaware of Wang’s actions, noting she had never sought assistance. The
representative added that Wang, despite coming from a disadvantaged background,
is known for her resilience and generosity. "Last month, she donated
10,000 yuan to support a student’s education," they revealed.
對於王婷近些年的創業經歷，掌上衡陽在報道中提到：
這些年，王婷先是南下廣東等地做生意，後又返鄉創業，在集兵鎮麻町村流轉土地5000多畝，一口氣種了用材林4000畝，油茶800畝，碧根果、錐栗、貴妃橙等經濟林種300多畝，並從炎陵引進黃桃樹苗，在岣嶁峰種植黃桃1000多畝；建立了衡陽新銘黃桃專業種植合作社；2022年，王婷又創辦一家食品有限公司，目前正在打造一處集種植、旅遊、住宿、餐飲於一體的以“愛”為主題的青春樂園與研學基地。
4月14日，有媒體就“王婷被嘲諷”一事發表評論:
回看王婷還債的過程，她並不是盲目犧牲，沒苦硬吃，而是透過勤儉奮鬥、創業打拼的方式增加收入，她返鄉發展特色農業，打造集種植、旅遊、住宿、餐飲於一體的鄉村研學基地，解決了近100人的就業問題，她用自己的努力彌補了愛人的遺憾，實現了事業理想，造福桑梓回饋社會，綻放出了屬於女性的溫潤光芒，這與那些所謂的“遭遇情感勒索”“自苦式付出”有著本質區別……我們不能一邊高喊打破對女性的“道德綁架”，一邊對女性的個人選擇吹毛求疵，製造新的“道德枷鎖”，否定一切情感表達。
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